I was talking with some men today and they brought up a very good question that I will be pondering for maybe even the rest of my life, when it comes to loving a women. The question is, "Do you treasure her?"
I believe that every woman, whether she consciously knows it or not, wants to be treasured. So when it comes to a relationship between a man and a women, the women is looking into the man's life to see how his world is, because that will tell her if she will be treasured or not. Does the man treasure himself? Does his life reflect that? If it doesn't, then how can he treasure the women? The whole thing with treasuring yourself is an area of how you view yourself and your identity. Do you respect yourself? Do you take care of yourself? Do you believe in and live in the truth about who you really are (according to the identity that God has given you)?
So, these are just some of my ponderings the past few days.
